LOW SELF-ESTEEM

We will tell about six phrases that can often be heard from a non-refusing woman. Maybe you will recognize some of your friends or acquaintances.

`No problem`

A non-refusing woman finds it hard to offend others with a refusal. Responding to the most complicated requests, she always says: `No problem!` In fact, there is a problem, and it consists of the fact that such a lady does not know how to say `no`. In her distorted mind, it flashes: `They might condemn or reject me if I refuse.`

`I had plans, but I will change them`

With this phrase, a woman emphasizes the importance of her actions. She wants to be not only obedient: it seems she sacrifices her plans for the sake of others. Moreover, a non-refusing woman thinks: in this way, she will appear better in others` eyes. In fact, it creates the impression that the person does not respect her personal interests.

Moreover, if you suggest not changing her plans, such a person will say: `Everything is fine`. She will insist on fulfilling your request and demonstrate her excessive friendliness.

`I can do it if no one wants to`

A non-refusing woman is ready for anything in this world. She may agree to go on a business trip to the end of the world, she is entrusted with the most scandalous clients, and she is given vacation in inconvenient months. The most interesting thing is that she offers her help herself. She wants to gain trust and show others that she is indispensable.

`Of course, I understand that it is hard for you and I will take on this duty`

The tendency to excessively show sensitivity and understanding is another sign of a woman with low self-esteem. This story can be called: `Love me, I am good.` Of course, it is good when a person truly wants to help. In the case of a woman who is afraid to refuse, it more resembles a desire to receive emotional support.

`It`s okay, I will wait`

This phrase is a very passive way to do a favor and draw attention to oneself. Such nobility makes the woman eternally languish, waiting for something wonderful. As soon as the time comes to receive pleasant things from fate, immediately someone will appear who needs it more. And, giving up her place in line again, she consoles herself that it is a noble act.

`No need, I will do it myself`

A woman with complexes does not know how to accept help. It is hard for her to show that she needs something, although it is completely normal when someone wants to help you. The thing is, she wants to appear strong and independent. In reality, she demonstrates her helplessness and ineptitude.

By the way, with this phrase, the woman does not show that she is very happy about her independence. On the contrary, the decision burdens her, and she does it not out of gratitude, but in spite of it.

The English proverb says: `Everyone has their skeletons in the closet.` You need to work on your complexes, but you must know them clearly. The first step on the way to solving the problem is to admit that it exists. Be brave, confident, self-sufficient, and even a little proud. Learn to respect yourself and say no when you need to. We wish you luck!