Here`s what you need to know:

`Dear men. Lately, I`ve been very bored when communicating with some men. Sometimes you are so stupid that you are predictable and monotonous.

Yes, honestly, by the age of 40, I`ve had many offers for sex. But I`ve never understood why men think such a proposal flatters me, especially if the man is not very attractive? When you go through a certain stage of your life, you`ve probably seen and read enough not to be surprised by such situations. Moreover, I know very well that some events can bring great disappointment.

You appear, then disappear again, and everything goes in circles - the scenario is not new. Men, do you realize that such behavior is predictable?

Cafes, restaurants... Invite me to play billiards or visit an exhibition at least. I understand very well what it`s all aimed at. But please, do it in a way that matters. From the first minute, prove that you respect me. It`s your attitude that makes you unique.`

As a psychologist, I understand that instincts take precedence over the mind. Sometimes I even associate people with more primitive animals. Of course, there are educated people with a high level of culture who truly enchant. But unfortunately, there are very few of them. Very few!

I don`t even need to flirt! I often hear: `Let`s get to know each other better!` How much better? Maybe you`ll read Shakespeare to me like a romantic prince to conquer my heart? If you really want to know what attracts me in men, then I`ll answer: Intelligence! Do you hear me? Intelligence!

At my 40 years, I don`t care how big your belly or another body part is... I`m more interested in what we can talk about with you!

If you really want to impress me, surprise me with your humanity. I understand very well that your first thought will be: `I wonder what she`s like in bed!`

But wait! You do have brains, right? Turn them on and try to see me as a fellow human being, not just a sexual object. I`ve been through a lot and learned a lot. I can become a source of inspiration, peace, and warmth for you. Well, be smart enough to find the hidden treasure in me!

It`s a pity to look back on my life and realize that I`ve had the least of all - love. Even if I met love again, I would feel it completely differently. Love never repeats and never gets boring, understand, NEVER GETS BORING! If you can`t offer me that - please don`t waste your time or mine!` And what do you think about the psychologist`s message?