1. Chasing after him.
Movies portray great love as a grand obsession. They depict it as years of torment and suffering. In short, if you`re not suffering, it`s not real love. But that`s not the case. Love should be the simplest experience in our lives. Why chase after someone who should love you?
The person you`re destined to be with is different from others. From the start, he knows he wants to be with you and only you.
2. Begging him.
True love isn`t begged for. True love flows naturally and easily, like water.
When you beg someone to love you, you`ll never receive the love you deserve. And you`re probably asking for something he can`t give you.
Love should give you wings, not bring you to your knees.
3. Changing for him.
The one who loves you loves you completely. He may not always agree with you, but he won`t try to change you. If someone asks you to change, he might as well ask you to leave.
The right person doesn`t seek a perfect partner; he seeks someone who is perfect in their imperfection for him.
4. Negotiating with him.
You shouldn`t be with someone where you have to negotiate the terms of your relationship. It could just be an agreement on where to have dinner tonight or which relatives to celebrate holidays with.
5. Doubting him.
You shouldn`t doubt what he feels for you or who he is in general. He should be like an open book in his desires and goals in front of you.
6. Crying because of him.
Tears aren`t the water that helps relationships grow. Tears kill love. It`s a sign that you need to leave him. Relationships aren`t built from nights spent in tears; they`re built from days when you`re happy together.
7. Lying about him.
If you hide something about him from your friends, you`re in the wrong relationship. If you pretend he`s someone he`s not, you`re with the wrong person.
