5 pros and 5 cons of becoming a mother after 40

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Childbirth in mature age is becoming increasingly common. Reasons can be various: career, partner`s infidelity, desire to live for oneself, or simply insufficient readiness for such responsibility. Of course, it is each woman`s personal choice.


But if you decide that you want to become a mom after 40, you should know about some advantages and possible disadvantages of late pregnancy.


The arrival of a child brings immense happiness, but it is also associated with some risks. We look at pregnancy in mature age from different sides and invite you to join the discussion.

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Advantages:

1. You can extend your life
Women who give birth later have a higher chance of a long life. According to studies, this trend is observed in women with 1–3 children. The probable reason may lie in genetics. If a woman`s reproductive system functions well at this age, then other processes, including those related to aging, may have positive characteristics.
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2. You can reduce the risk of cognitive impairments

Another study found a link between the last pregnancy in mature age and higher cognitive performance indicators after menopause. These conclusions were based on a series of tests that analyzed various aspects of brain function.

Especially women who give birth after 35 have better verbal memory. Perhaps it is related to the influence of hormones on the brain. Particularly estrogen and progesterone, which are responsible for brain function and brain matter development.
3. At this age, you are wiser and more experienced

Compare your worldview in your 20s, 30s, and 40s. And now imagine the difference in raising children in these years. Women over 40 are more patient with their children and approach their upbringing with greater care.

Usually at this age, it`s not about accidental pregnancy. It is a conscious step that the woman is already prepared for. Therefore, she is stronger emotionally and psychologically and is tuned for the changes that the child brings into her life.
4. You have achieved financial stability

By the age of 40, many women have already built a career. They stop trying themselves in different fields, constantly changing jobs or earning unstable income. Women who experience the joy of motherhood later feel that they can let their career take a back seat and focus on the child.

It is also possible that at this age they have real estate and savings, which reduce the stress level associated with the child`s arrival in the world. Considering that she doesn`t have to think about career and work from dawn to dusk, she can devote more time to the little one.
5. You have enough time to try everything

The period of parties and constant travels is over, and now it`s time to create a family. At 40, you already have a lot of warm and fun memories, you have spent enough time with friends and, importantly, managed to live for yourself. You traveled, explored the world, and expanded your horizons.

Therefore, when having a child, you are less likely to feel dissatisfied with your life and will have energy reserves to give to the little one.

But despite the fact that pregnancy after 40 has its advantages, it sometimes also creates certain disadvantages.
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Risks:

1. You have fewer chances of getting pregnant

With age, especially after 32, the probability of getting pregnant decreases. The quantity and quality of eggs decrease, there may be ovarian function disorders.

But don`t despair, because nowadays it is possible to use donor eggs, freeze your own at an earlier age, or agree to surrogate mother services.
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2. You have an increased risk of miscarriage

The risk of miscarriage increases with age and after 45 can reach 50% or more. Of course, not only age affects fetal loss. Age-related changes affect our body as a whole, reduce hormonal and maternal functions, and also complicate other factors that can lead to this sad situation.
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3. You have an increased risk of osteoporosis

According to studies, those who gave birth after 35 had twice the probability of developing this disease. Therefore, during pregnancy, special attention should be paid to bones, monitoring nutrition and loads.
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4. You have an increased risk of premature birth

Mature age significantly increases the probability that the child will be born early and with low weight. There is a study where age itself, regardless of negative factors, can be the cause of premature birth.
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5. You may develop gestational diabetes

This form of diabetes is temporary in most cases, and it is caused by insufficient insulin during pregnancy. According to study data, pregnant women over 40 have a 74% increased risk of developing this complication. Therefore, it is so important to timely test for gestational diabetes and undergo the appropriate treatment course.

Pregnancy has its disadvantages at any age. Much depends on physical and psychological health. If you decide to become a mother in mature age, you still have good chances of a healthy child`s birth. But it is important to understand that special attention must be paid to your condition and consult a doctor on all issues.
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Do you think there`s no need to rush with having a child? Do you think pregnancy is better at an earlier age? Share your opinion in the comments.

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0 1 14:12 17.02Anna
My bf will like that!!!
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