25 gifts you should never give to anyone

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Choosing gifts for loved ones and friends is responsible and exciting. Unfortunately, not everyone thinks so, buying the traditional pair of socks for men and another pan or pot for women. Our ancestors believed that this is wrong. There are beliefs that can tell which gifts are better to avoid and which to buy.

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Watch

Giving a watch is considered, at the very least, bad taste in many countries. In China, it is believed that this gift counts down the time left for a person to live. In our country, there is no such superstition, but many believe that such a gift will cause a breakup.

Knife

Europeans believe that sharp objects should not be given – they are considered harbingers of future problems in the recipient`s home. Latin American residents believe that by giving a knife, they `cut` all ties with the person to whom it is given. Caucasian and Eastern residents calmly accept weapons as gifts.

Dishes

You cannot give cracked dishes with chipped pieces – this can become the reason for a `broken` life. If dishes are still chosen as a gift, something must be placed inside them. The tradition where newlyweds break dishes at weddings is considered for good luck. They leave all the bad outside the newly formed family.

Bird figurines

Bird figures bring unrest and haste into the home.
Socks

There is an opinion that if a woman gives socks to a man, he may leave home. If a mother-in-law gives socks to her son, she encourages him to leave her influence.

Handkerchief

Orthodox people believe that a presented handkerchief as a gift foretells possible tears.

Book

Folk belief says that a book can be given to relatives, but not to a partner – such a gift to a loved one can become a harbinger of quarrel. A book should not be given to a married couple – it can provoke arguments and misunderstandings in the home.

Pearls

Ancient Greeks believed that pearls are the tears of sea nymphs. Such a gift foretells imminent tears.

Mirror

Many superstitions are associated with mirrors. It is believed that they bring troubles to a new home.
Bag, suitcase, empty wallet

When choosing one of these items as a gift, something must be placed inside, and giving an empty wallet is strictly forbidden. Let there be at least one coin or bill inside.

Plants, animals

When giving such a `living` gift, the giver should ask for a ransom. Without it, according to beliefs, the new inhabitant will not find its place in the home.

Slippers

Superstitious people believe that slippers as a gift can attract illness or death to a person. This especially applies to white slippers.

Amber jewelry

It is believed that amber jewelry is a symbol of imminent separation.

Box

It is accepted to believe that a person who is given a box will tightly hide experiences and thoughts from the giver.

Hair combs

Such a gift can help others and the giver see the person`s thoughts.

Scarves, gloves, mittens

There is no precise explanation for the prohibition of such gifts. It is accepted to believe that they can cause people to quarrel.
Necktie

A necktie binds the giver and the new owner of this item. A spell can be cast on a necktie. It is said that such a gift can be given to a very close person.

Knitted items

This belief should be taken into account by unmarried girls. It is accepted to believe that a knitted item given to a loved one is a harbinger of betrayal. Such gifts are better given after the wedding.

Underwear

This belief applies to women. It is believed that a wife who gives underwear to her husband encourages him to infidelity.

Chain

If a chain breaks after being given, it is said that the relationship between people will soon be broken as well.

Towel

Such a gift can bring illnesses.

Neck cross

A cross is given at baptism. In other cases, the giver transfers part of the illness, problems, troubles to the person with the gift. Church servants completely refute this theory.

Washing and shower cosmetics

It is believed that such gifts `wash out` from a person`s life the one who gave them.

Candle

One should refuse such a gift; it is said to be for imminent funerals. Decorative candles should also not be given.

Alcoholic beverages

This belief is fully explained by common sense. It is said that such a gift takes away part of the health, and this is explainable.
Despite the impressive list of prohibitions, there is a way to bypass them.

• It is necessary to ask the person for a small, symbolic ransom – even one coin will be enough. In this way, the gift turns into a purchase, since money is received for the item.

What will be suitable as a gift

Unfortunately, very little is said about suitable gifts, but some points deserve special attention.

Pillow

Pillows should be given in pairs to bring harmony and prosperity into the home.

Carpet

A carpet given as a gift promises the new owner success in any new endeavor.

Tablecloth

A tablecloth as a gift strengthens the bonds of friendship between the recipient and the giver.

Sunglasses

This belief mostly applies to married men. If they give such a gift to their wife, it will reduce the number of arguments in the home. The wife will be able to look at the world through her husband`s eyes.

Pen
This writing instrument is appropriate to give to managers. It is believed that the manager will listen more to the giver.

Gift-giving signs. There are special signs related to the way of giving. They may be useful to you:

• After sunset, one should not give money. This leads to the giver`s need, not the recipient`s. At least, in the evening, such a gift should be placed on the table, not given directly into hands. Money gifts are better presented in the morning or during the day.
• It is forbidden to regift gifts. Firstly, it is ugly, and the energy of a `second-hand` gift worsens.
• Gifts should not be given across the threshold; one must enter the house.
• Gifts should not be given before the birthday. A gift given early should not be unpacked, so ask the recipient to do it if there is no other way. Let them see it on the holiday day.
• Flowers should be given in odd numbers. For those in love, avoid yellow flowers. It is said to lead to separation.

Remember!

All beliefs that have been rooted in people for centuries are words not confirmed by facts. You yourself must decide whether to believe in superstitions or not pay attention to them. The main thing is to choose a gift from the heart and enjoy another person`s joy.

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0 1 14:12 17.02Anna
My bf will like that!!!
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