1. He promises and doesnt keep his promises.

If he always promises you: ”Were going for a walk” or ”Were going to meet my family,” but it doesnt happen, it means he has no time for you.

Dont believe his excuses. If a man is truly interested in a woman, it doesnt matter how much work he has, what financial problems or illness; it wont stop him from calling you or sending a message. Remember that the time you spend on a man who doesnt deserve you and treats you indifferently is time youll never get back.

2. He lies a lot.

Openness and honesty with your partner is one of the basic elements of healthy relationships. Often you catch him in small lies, but he doesnt care about it. When a person loves you, he is honest with you.

3. He is open only when he is drunk.

Only when he has consumed alcohol does he call you or send messages. This means he doesnt care about you. He develops feelings for you only when he is under the influence of alcohol. This can be not only a phone call, but also a desire to have sex. If the guy youre in a relationship with writes or calls only when drunk, youre better off stopping seeing him.

4. He is not affectionate.

You are known as a very affectionate and nice person. But if he doesnt want to kiss you, hold your hand, and doesnt show his feelings publicly, you should think about your further relationship with this man.

5. He uses his phone all the time.

When meeting with you, he looks at his phone; as soon as he receives a message, he reads it and after reading, immediately hides the phone. He never lets his phone out of his hands and doesnt leave it out of his sight. He is only interested in the content of his phone. He gets angry when you complain about the time he spends on the phone.

6. Marriage is a waste of time, energy, and life.

He often tells how he hates monogamy and that marriage is just a trick to control him. He wants you to know that he loves a free life and hates responsibilities. In this way, you can learn that he doesnt plan his future with you.

7. He is never there when needed.

When youre having a hard time, he never finds time to meet you and cheer you up. When youre sick and cant get out of bed, hes not there to take care of you and give you medicine. He doesnt care about how you feel.

8. He doesnt cuddle you.

An unsocial man will always feel the desire to cuddle the girl he likes. Even if he doesnt like it, he will do it to make you happy. There is always the opportunity to experiment in bed, but there will never be special intimacy or loving caresses.

9. He often stays at your place.

Many men who consider you a toy dont want to invite you to their place because its easier to break up with you if you dont live at his place.

10. If you didnt insist, you wouldnt meet him.

If you didnt call him or invite him to meet, would that be the reason why you dont meet? If the answer is ”yes,” it means youre a toy.

11. He calls you late at night.

You dont receive messages or calls during the day. If he writes or calls you late at night, he probably thinks about you only during the night hours.

12. He has silly reasons to leave you alone.

These are excuses that are not essential, or possible tasks that someone else could do, for example, he forgot to record his favorite show, needs to walk the dog immediately, he wants to go shopping.

13. He fits you in between his tasks.

He fits you in on the way. He sees you before a big event and after the meeting he has urgent tasks. He never devotes much time to you. For example, not spending the whole evening or day with you.

14. He doesnt respect you.

He doesnt care about things you might like. He doesnt respect your time, your needs, or your body. He doesnt support your passions, career, or dreams. Youre always in second place for him.